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Your Body Knows

Exercising an average of 20 to 45 minutes three to five days a week can reduce your risk for pregnancy-related health problems. It can also reduce lower back pain by building stronger abdominal and back muscles and improving your postpartum recovery. Most importantly, regular exercise is great for improving your overall psychological well-being and mood, which is essential to pregnancy and the postpartum period. This can be a little difficult for ladies, who are generally more on the un-sporty side and like to move as little as possible. Anyhow, for the sake of a healthy pregnancy, a healthy baby and an easier birth, now might be a good time to start moving a little more. But moderately please. It’s crucial to not overdo it.

Every mom is individual. Every pregnancy is different. Every labor is different. We all have different fitness levels. You know how you usually feel so you are the one that can identify when you feel discomfort and want to go easy on you.

Being conscious and acknowledging how you feel during and after an exercise or the workout keeps you connected to yourself and allows you to get the most out of it. If you are experiencing pain, discomfort or severe fatigue post exercise/workout, you may want to recognize it and modify going forward. Doing less does not make you a failure. Remembering that is sometimes a challenge among the over achiever ladies… I know. But sometimes we just have to do less to gain more. No matter the suitability of any exercise, your body needs you to listen to what it’s telling you, take things at your own pace and give yourself some grace. Remember, during pregnancy your aim is to stay active for the benefit of you and your baby rather than exercising to exhaustion or achieving personal bests. 

If you take the attention to listen to your body, your body will tell you what you need. You might need a break to catch your breath and rest sometimes. It’s OK to pass up a hike for a nap. This is not the time to feel like you should begin training for a marathon. With pregnancy, you are in the middle of – or just finishing one of the biggest marathons in your life.

Pregnancy is a wonderful time to focus on yourself and your needs. Addressing those needs through safe exercise will help promote a healthy mental and physical state of being.

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Quality Sperm

Look how happy that future mama looks! 

You might be wondering: how often should you have sex when you’re trying to conceive? Some research has shown that sperm have better quality after a 2-3 day period of abstinence but there are also studies that have shown higher rates of conception in couples who have sex every 1-2 days. So what’s the rule of thumb to go by? 

Of course making love once a day or every other day during your fertile window may increase your odds of getting pregnant but you don’t want to force yourself into a schedule as it could lead to unnecessary stress. Nobody wants to have sex when they must. Everybody wants to have sex if they really feel it tho. The more comfortable you feel about yourself and your relationship, the more comfortable you will feel about making love with all of your heart. 

Remember that the ideal number of times to have sex is not what’s written on some “how to schedule”, but what feels most comfortable to you and your significant other. After all, making a baby is not called an act of stress but an act of love. Something we could do all night long, because we love it so much. 

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Quality Time For The Family

When you talk about hopes and dreams and fears and longings and your secret desires – especially in an intimate setting – that’s intimacy – and it boosts that special partnership connection between a man and a woman and keeps them emotionally close. Many couples keep asking themselves how they can make their relationship better. How can a relationship grow in worth? Would you like to know? 

It’s super simple. How does real estate for example grow in worth? Exactly. Through appreciation! So what do we have to do to make our relationship worth more? Yes!! We have to APPRECIATE IT! It’s so easy! 

But how can we appreciate our relationship? Here are some examples: 

  • Telling your partner how much you appreciate him and what you appreciate about him. Men usually like it when their lady goes into details. Telling him what things he does and how amazing they make you feel, inturn makes him feel like your hero. 
  • Sharing with friends, family and others how happy you are about your relationship. 
  • Writing little love notes to your man. 

Appreciating each other may be done by making time in order to show how much you care for one another and how much you are willing to connect and be intimate in your relationship. Making time to be with your man can bring a lot of joy as this pregnancy is your and your partner’s journey, too. How to initiate those quality times? Just tell him often enough how much you love spending time with him and how much you would like to do it again sometime soon and be amazed with what happens. 

Here are some articles that help you see what kind of difference it makes for a baby if the father shows a lot of love during pregnancy or not.

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101 Pregnancy Questions

This book is packed with unusual pregnancy questions and is very easy to read. You don’t have to be a novel lover to have fun reading this. If you like magazines, you’ll very likely like this book too. All questions are comfortably listed in the index and so you can pick one and go directly to the specific question, read from start to finish or simply “zap” through the book. Those…

“Will sex poke my baby?”
“Is it dangerous to be around smokers?”
“Will wearing heels hurt my unborn baby?”
“I drank alcohol before I knew I was pregnant. Is my baby ok?”
“Can I start contraception when pregnant?”

… are just a few of the interesting and fun questions you will find. Did you know that in some very rare cases, women actually can get pregnant while pregnant and have more than one baby? Amazing! I’ve learned something new from this book!

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Building Confidence

Pregnancy can be delightful, exciting, and challenging in a woman’s life. Expectant mothers can feel excited and ready for the journey. On the other hand, you feel frustrated and sick to your stomach. Not only can pregnancy affect a woman’s physical body, but it can also affect hormones, causing happiness, worries, and irritability all in a moment.

Stress can hamper your self-esteem and with all of these changes, you might even feel like you’re not yourself anymore. Fortunately, there are definitely ways to stay positive and feel confident about yourself throughout your pregnancy.

You can always say something kind to yourself as soon as you wake up. You don’t have to wake up and list everything you love about your body, but tell yourself what you’re proud of you for. Make a habit of thinking of yourself in a positive light. 

Valor Young Living Essential oil allows you to have the courage and self-esteem to overcome those things that are holding you back. Whenever you feel overwhelmed, worried, or anything that creates imbalance emotionally, Valor is ready to empower your self-confidence. 

How to use Valor?

– Apply several drops (2-4) to chest, base of neck, bottom of feet

-Massage 1-2 drops of Valor essential oil blend on your temples or neck to ward off negative energy and increase inner strength

-Add Valor essential oil blend to your back following a massage for an uplifting experience.

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Joy Shared By Two

Joy oil can help bring joy to the family. 

When things go a little weird in the relationship, you can diffuse it when your partner is around. Put 3-5 drops of Joy oil in your diffuser and press on. Joy oil can help restore harmony in an untuned relationship. 

You can also use it as a perfume for her. Men love the scent! Just apply a few drops to your chest and neck. Caution with sunlight! Don’t use Joy oil 12 hours prior to being exposed to direct sunlight. Evenings and cloudy days are perfect. Or applying it under some clothes, where direct sunlight doesn’t arrive. 

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Papas Love

Most mums-to-be experience some pregnancy symptoms in their first trimester. This daily physical reminder may help you bond with your unborn baby from the start. Although your partner doesn’t have this physical experience, there are still plenty of ways to help them bond with your growing baby as your pregnancy progresses. Help your partner to feel your unborn baby’s movements. Let them know that your baby can now hear sounds outside your womb. Suggest your partner talks and reads to your baby bump. This will help your baby become familiar with their voice.

I actually had my friend tell me that she gave birth to two girls, just about 1 year apart. To one, the father spoke every night and caressed the baby bump, while the baby was still in the stomach of the mother. To the second one he never spoke. He also didn’t caress her in her mothers womb. The girls have grown to be teenagers, and the first one loves her father endlessly while the second one doesn’t care a lot about him. I was baffled by the difference a regular act of connection can make. Since I have told my man about this, he takes extra time to connect with our kids and they love him very much.

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Build A Life Together

Mourning Doves normally build their nests in trees but will build them on the ground, on window ledges, or on other man-made structures if needed. The male looks for a good place to build the nest, and once he finds one he calls the female and she either approves or disapproves. When the female feels right, the build may begin! Because after all, female intuition is also an important guide to building a cozy home. Home – the result of two hearts committed to build a life together. 

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Embrace the present! This is a good day!

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Live every moment. Love beyond words.